Why Do Men Pull Away

So we tend to only start wanting to learn about the law of attraction when we encounter problems in our lives, and with this blog, we are going to deal with significant issues, and how you can fix them with a metaphysical approach.

A common problem for just about every woman in life, is when a man suddenly pulls away in a relationship!

Just about every woman in a relationship will have experienced this at some point!

It may be at the beginning of a relationship, or it could be when you have been together for quite a while, either way it is upsetting and highly confusing!

It feels like his change in behavior for you literally changes overnight. Suddenly he doesn’t want to know you!

In this post I don’t intend to go to deep into explaining why men pull away, however if you want to know more detail, check out this great article at … whydomenpullaway.net

I do intend on explaining how to manifest a solution to this problem!

A Brief Explanation On Why Men Become Distant:

The simple explanation is … they feel one of these things:

  1. They have no control over the direction of their lives.
  2. There is a lack of emotional connection.
  3. You’re pressuring him.

There is a 4th reason, and that may just be a jerk, and my advice to you then is to stop caring and move on!

So lets take a very quick look at these 3 things.

No Control:

If he feels like he has no control over the direction of his life, due to his relationship, then he will become distant.

If you are constantly controlling his time, and what is happening in each moment he has spare, then he will feel frustrated.

It is great to organize things for you to do together, but if he never has any space of free time, then he will start distancing himself from the relationship.

I made this mistake once. With a past boyfriend, every weekend, spare moment we had I organized things for us to do together and with friends.  A lot of this was all planned out months in advance.

One year in October, we didn’t have a free weekend until Christmas!

My boyfriend got frustrated and I couldn’t understand. All he wanted was one weekend to do nothing! He just wanted time to wind down, and do whatever motivated him, even if that meant sitting on the couch.

He had no free time to get any jobs around the house either.

He became distant, and I realized that he was upset that he felt like he had no control over his life.

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Emotional Connection:

We may think that men are emotionless beasts that are consumed with sex.

However men actually desire a deep emotional connection with a woman. Just like a woman does!

It doesn’t feel like this is the case, because men and woman search for this connection in different ways.

Men look for it through sex, and women look for it through romance.

At some point as both men and women mature, a balance is struck and they meet in the women.

Men are also realists, they view a relationship in a very practical way, where as women tend to view a relationship like a fairy tale romance.

If a man lacks an emotional connection with you, then he will want to move on. He will back away from the relationship.

Ultimatums And Pressure:

If you are forcing a man into more commitment, then you will most certainly push him away!

It may be to move in together, to say “I love you”, to get married or have children. Either way if you keep putting pressure on him, you will only force him away.

You are only doing this out of fear, and what you resist persists, hence your reality reflects this experience back to you.

He actually wants the same things as you. He wants to get married and start a family, he wants to tell you he loves you.

But if he needs to feel like he is making the decision to do that, just like you wouldn’t like to be pressured as well.

Manifesting A Solution With The Law Of Attraction:

This is actually very simple!

First you need to accept responsibility for whatever your part in creating this situation was.

Then you need to completely allow the situation. You need allow the emotions, and resistance to flow through you and allow a state of balance within you.

This will allow the law of attraction to create a solution for you.

When you are in this place of balance you will be inspired to take actions that will fix this situation with your man.

You may think about all the doubts and what ifs! If so, just allow those doubts and feelings. They are just thoughts, and remember you are life itself, the situation will fix itself, and your relationship will be able to get back on track.

Always remember that your reality is always reflecting your thoughts and feelings back to you.

Keep calm and don’t panic, everything will be fixed before you know it.

Intro Series To The Law Of Attraction | Love

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I am sure just about all of you reading this page will have watched or heard about The Secret! …

For many of you, this would have been your first introduction to the law of attraction. For others, it may not have.

In fact, for those that have a healthy understanding of the law of attraction, The Secret probably frustrated you more than anything, as it left a lot of important details out.

The law of attraction is actually pretty straight forward, it’s at work all of the time, and is responsible for the reality you are experiencing right now.

It’s not something that you need to try and get to work … it is always working! You need to learn how to work the law of attraction to your advantage.

There are many areas of your life that you will have desires for and things that you would like to manifest. In this post we are going to begin with love, and why Love plays such a motivating force in our life.

So lets begin:

Manifestation And Love:

Law Of Attraction And Love

Love is one of the biggest motivators, and driving forces behind people wanting to know more about spirituality and manifestation.

In fact most people will discover the law of attraction, as a result of a break up and wanting to get an ex back, or they are falling in love with a person in their life, and wanting to manifest a specific person. The rest simply just desire a relationship of some kind, the relationship of their dreams.

As always with love, and manifesting … you need to work on your own internal vibration and love for your self. This will bring new relationships and people into your life from the universe.

Remember reality is like a mirror, what you’re sending out, is what you’re getting back.

This is easy for people to understand. But for many they start to get hung up on the details.

I found the law of attraction because of a break up, and I was desperate to know if I could use it to manifest my ex back. I spent more time worrying about if I was “allowed” to manifest something like that, than actually giving it a go … many people are in this same boat, and we will discuss this in detail in a later post.

For others they have a person in their life, that they have fallen in love with, and desire a relationship with them. Once again too many people get hung up on the details, and wonder if it is possible for them to try and manifest a relationship with a specific person.

People still seem to think the universe is judging what they can and can’t desire, when in fact all it does, is give back what you send out!

Think about it like this …. before you encountered manifesting and metaphysics, you met a guy or girl that you liked, and you set about attempting to gain their attention, and win their heart. That’s how our parents, grand parents and everyone has done it!

Yet suddenly when you discover the laws of attraction, you are told that it’s wrong to desire a specific person …. why the heck is that?

To discuss this more, Adam Evans has a great video that I have put below, discussing this concept of using the law of attraction to attract a specific person:

 

If you’re interested in more from Adam, he has a hugely popular blog post titled Law Of Attraction Specific Person which accompanies this video. Or he has a great and informative answer on Quora discussing the in’s and out’s of using the law of attraction to attract a specific person.

Either way, the point is, when it comes to manifesting love, you need to keep and open mind! Use that specific person as motivation, and keep an open mind to the outcome.

Life goes on with manifestation. For your desires to be popped into your reality, it requires you to take action towards those desires.

You can’t just sit on the couch all day and have the person of your dreams ask you out!

You need to use principles such as staying in the now, and bringing awareness to your mind to remove the limiting beliefs you have about your desire.

You also need to take action when you feel inspired to do so.

In fact … you will most likely have to ask the specific person you desire out on a date! … But the universe will orchestrate events beautifully to get you ready to do that mentally, and provide you the opportunity.

Manifesting is a very interactive process.

But that is enough for now, talk again soon!